Collocations for distraught - adj.

appear, be, look, seem, sound
She sounded absolutely distraught.

become
leave sb
His mother's death left him utterly distraught.

extremely, fairly, very, etc.
absolutely, completely, utterly
emotionally

at
They were extremely distraught at the news of his accident.

Distraught is used with these nouns:
mother, parent